My best friend is so much better than me:(?

it sounds like you need more self confidence! why don't you include yourself more with her and her friends, so you can get to know them? as for clothes, what i personally do, is my mom gives me $25 a week for lunch money (figuring i'll spend $5 a day), but i don't need that much for lunch everyday so i save some (but make sure you still eat!) and after a few weeks you'll have a lot of money! for hair, maybe you're just using the wrong kind of shampoo and conditioner! you can always just say to her, hey i love how nice your hair always looks, what do you use?? i'm sure she'd love the compliment and she'd tell you! (i've had people ask me that and i don't mind telling at all!) lastly, why would you ever want to be quiet?! i used to be quiet and it took years for me to not be shy, it was very hard! you need to keep your personality! sure, maybe this girl is just the greatest, but so are you! just in your own way, and there's NOTHING wrong with that! it sounds like you need to embrace yourself more, and find your own personal style, and lastly, just get out there more and talk to more people! don't copy her, by yourself! and who knows, maybe you'll have a different style she really likes, and you could always trade clothes and stuff too!